Conversation – 17

Sheba, Happy Twoday’s on Tuesday! And it a palindrome.
You like a lot of different music styles. All good. The purses are lovely.

Sounds like you got lots done with hubby. Good job!

HI SHEBA. I LOVE EVERYTHING CHRISTOPHER CROSS . WARM HERE THEN COLD . I WILL TAKE THE WARM .BEFORE THIS NIGHT IS OVER BY KENNY G. LOVE KENNY.STAY SAFE SENDING HUGS .

Peace Out Peeps! Have a safe and warm evening. ✨✨

@shoelady60,

Glad things went well at the Dentist now you can relax and enjoy a drink.

This is from your sister Shoelady. 😘💕I feel like I know you. Happy Birthday and many
happy healthy returns. 😎

Wait for it..

Enjoy! 😘😎

@xango,

I am going to get some help from my siblings on the gift for our mom I want it to be
special. Mom looks fantastic and does not want for anything. 😎 I think one of the best
gifts is to see me in person. 💕😘🌹

Enjoy the evening.

@Sheba

Hello Sheba, how are you and Poppy? Our temperatures have been in the low eighties and no rain in sight.
It’s a good idea to start early looking for Mother’s Day gifts. It’s the first week of May and it comes up fast. I sure could use some ideas, we have a 88 year old family member to get a gift for. No idea what right now.
Here’s wishing you and Poppy a great warm day tomorrow.
Take care Sheba.

@sheba2011

Thanks for the toast to sis.🍸 We are going to lunch tomorrow, Chinese restaurant as this is her favorite. All went well at the dentist today.🦷

I see you are freezing again in Oz.🥶 Warm today but we will get cold by Thursday and may have rain, sleet and snow on Friday. That always feels even worse after 60 degrees. Stay warm snuggled up with hubs and Poppy.💗🥰

@angie0215

Hello

How adorable I want him.

Changing Others

If your tendency is to try and change other people, take some time to explore why you feel the need to do so.

Our perception of humanity as a whole is, to a large extent, dualistic. We paint people with a broad brush — some are like us, sharing our opinions and our attitudes, while others are different. Our commitment to values we have chosen to embrace is often so strong that we are easily convinced that our way is the right way. We may find ourselves frustrated by those who view the world from an alternate vantage point and make use of unusual strategies when coping with life’s challenges. However ardently we believe that these people would be happier and more satisfied following our lead, we should resist the temptation to try to change them. Every human being has been blessed with a unique nature that cannot be altered by outside forces. We are who we are at any one point in our lives for a reason, and no one person can say for certain what another should be like.

The reasons we try to change one another are numerous. Since we have learned over time to flourish in the richness of lives we have built, we may come to believe that we are qualified to speak on behalf of the greater source. The sum total of our knowledge will never compare to what we do not know, however, and our understanding of others’ lives will forever be limited. The potential we see in the people who are a part of our lives will never be precisely the same as our own, so we do these individuals a disservice when we make assumptions about their intentions, preferences, and goals. Our power lies in our ability to accept others for all their quirks and differences and to let go of the need to control every element of our existence. We can love people for who they are, embracing their uniqueness, or we can love them as human beings from afar.

Your ability to influence people may grow more sophisticated because others sense that you respect their right to be themselves, but you will likely spend more time gazing inward, into the one person you can change: yourself. Thank you for reading. 😘✨✨