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Club Sheba

This is so classy. 💕😘✨

@taci,

This is the Pink Topper I brought last year. I did leave a review. 😎😘

Heidi Daus looks great in it. 🌹💕

Coming Back to Center in a Relationship

In a long-term relationship, it is often necessary to get back to basics and come back to center with each other.

Anyone in a long-term relationship knows that the dance of intimacy involves coming together and moving apart. Early in a relationship, intense periods of closeness are important in order to establish the ground of a new union. Just as a sapling needs a lot more attention than a full-grown tree, budding relationships demand time and attention if they are to fully take root. Once they become more established, the individuals in the union begin to turn their attention outward again, to the other parts of their lives that matter, such as work, family, and friendships. This is natural and healthy. Yet, if a long-term relationship is to last, turning towards one another recurrently, with the same curiosity, attention, and nurturance of earlier times, is essential.

In a busy and demanding world full of obligations and opportunities, we sometimes lose track of our primary relationships, thinking they will tend to themselves. We may have the best intentions when we think about how nice it would be to surprise our partner with a gift or establish a weekly date night. Yet somehow, life gets in the way. We may think that our love is strong enough to survive without attention. Yet even mature trees need water and care if they are to thrive.

One of the best ways to nourish a relationship is through communication. If you feel that a distance has grown between you and your partner, you may be able to bridge the gap by sharing how you feel. Do your best to avoid blame and regret. Focus instead on the positive, which is the fact that you want to grow closer together. Sometimes, just acknowledging that there is distance between you has the effect of bringing the relationship into balance. In other cases, more intense effort and attention may be required. You may want to set aside time to talk and come up with solutions together. Remember to have compassion for each other. You’re in the same boat together and trying to maintain the right balance of space and togetherness to keep your relationship healthy and thriving. Express faith and confidence in each other, and enjoy the slow dance of intimacy that can resume between the two of you. ✨✨

@kittengirl,

Good morning in Cali Kitten may this weekend be a good and safe one for you
and your family. ✨✨🌹

@shoelady60,

Good afternoon in the ‘burgh. I know you are out and about and I will be too.
Lady you had me cracking up last night on your post regarding Poppy. 😜🤣

I feel sometimes you need that spark of humor just to laugh all the stress off. ✨😘

Enjoy your day and I will make something fun for you in Club Sheba and if you want
me to cover something let me know. I want to say again welcome back to your sister. 😜🌹

@71flowerchild,

Howdy in Texas I hope all is well with you and your family. ✨😘🌹
Wishing you a great weekend we have leaves calling us. 🤣

@taci,

Good morning in S. California. ✨I really did enjoy Heidi Daus. I have my eye on something
and it is nothing to sneeze at it is the Sheer Heaven Bracelet I have the long necklace
and earrings all I need is the bracelet and the suite will be complete it is in my favorites.

Enjoy the trails today OZ is beautiful perfect fall weather. 😎✨

Happy Trails To You. 🎶🎶

@oodiebom,

Good afternoon on the Gulf Coast. ✨😘😎I know you are busy as this is Trivia Evening.

Take your time and do what you need to do. How are you and your husband feeling today?

Get a little nap in if you can. See ya tonight. ✨ Oodie it was nice to see Fairemaiden post
last night. 🌹I can feel something I know her too well. I know when she is ready she will open
her heart to the Community.

@xango,

Good afternoon in sunny Florida. ✨ All is well in the land of OZ. The temps are
perfect for fall. 😎😘

I must say we have a ton of leaves to get up over the weekend. Hubby will have this
honor I will deal with the flowers which are in full bloom. ✨🌹

Well tonight is Trivia so I hope to see you there. My husband is with me when I play
Trivia when I guess an answer he just laughs. 🤣 Here is to a great day.

@loaf,

Sending you a Friday Shout Out. I do hope you and your family are doing well.
You are missed. ✨😘

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