Conversation – 18

Lily James

Selena Gomez

Viola Davis

Jean Smart

Billy Porter

Margot Robbie

Austin Butler – Elvis

Michelle Williams

Club Sheba Golden Globes Edition ✨✨

Eddie Redmayne

@Sheba

Hello Sheba, how are you today? So glad to hear about Charlie, I can just imagine his face when he sees you. Charlie looks just like my Very first cat, he lived 21 and a half years. And he looks like Simon, he passed in 2015.

I wear contacts, I use readers to see up close. They didn’t have the contacts I wanted, I may see another doctor some time this year.

Hubby wanted an omelet for dinner today, so to go with it I made some vegetables too.

I hope your cousin’s operation went well. Sending prayers for all to be well.

Take care Sheba

Appreciating Suggestions

People will always have an idea about how you should live your life, but your idea is the only one that matters.

As children, our parents had dreams for us. They wanted us to do well in school, and to do whatever was necessary to reach our highest potential. Later in life, friends may try to set us up with their idea of the perfect partner or the perfect job. Spouses may have agendas for us, too. People close to us may have ideas about how we should live our lives, ideas that usually come from love and the desire for us to be happy. Other times, they come from a place of need within them—whether it is the parent who wants us to live out his or her dreams or the friend or spouse who wants us to play an already-defined role. Whatever the case, we can appreciate and consider those people’s input, but ultimately we must follow our own inner guidance.

There may come a time when all the suggestions can become overbearing. We may feel that the people we love don’t approve of our judgment, which can hurt our feelings. It can interfere with the choices we make for our lives by making us doubt ourselves, or filling a void with their wishes before we’ve had a chance to decide what we want. It can affect us energetically as well. We may have to deal with feelings of resistance or the need to shut ourselves off from them. But we can take some time to rid ourselves of any unnecessary doubts and go within to become clear on what we desire for ourselves.

We can tell our loved ones how much we appreciate their thoughts and ideas, but that we need to live our own lives and make our own decisions. We can explain that they need to let us learn from our own experiences rather than rob us of wonderful life lessons and the opportunity to fine-tune our own judgment. When they see that we are happy with our lives and the path we are taking to reach our goals, they can rest assured that all we need them to do is to share in our joy. AMEN! ✨🌹

@kittengirl,

Good morning in California Kitten you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. 🌹

@shoelady60,

Good afternoon in the ‘burgh. I am still smiling about your post from yesterday. 😎😘

Hey Game Day for your Hockey Team. ✨✨I hope they win.

If you are out and about have a good day. Hope hubby is enjoying his birthday week. 🌹✨

@taci,

Good morning in S. California I hope you don’t have that nasty weather going all
over Cali. ✨✨

Still enjoy your hike and be careful. ✨OZ is alright today we are above freezing. LOL!

Happy Trails To You. 😎