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Make it a good Tuesday Peeps! ✨✨

Creating boundaries…protecting your peace and being comfortable with knowing and understanding what your limits are… 💕 it’s all part of the process of learning to L💗VE YOUrself more…✨✨

@oodiebom,

As long as you have each other Valentine’s Day is everyday. 💖💕🌹

@sheba2011

Good morning Sheba. It’s just a little past midnight. I must have dozed. It was a bright, sunny day with temps in the low 60s. Tonight will be in the low to mid 40s. I put the heat on just a few seconds ago. There is a chill, but nothing to bother us.

The doctor appointment went OK. We were 15 minutes early. The physician was an hour and a half late. We surmise there was an emergency, though we were not told of anything going on. We mentioned the problem about seeing the cardiologist and he arranged for hubby to get an ECHO which should help with the anesthesia. Though Covid and it’s variants are slowly going down, I am not sure at this time if I will be permitted to stay with him prior to the procedure. I also not sure if he will be admitted following surgery. That I won’t know until the day of or following. While in the doctor’s office my cough returned and he recommended going off all my sinus meds and get Allegra and one other medication. I will probably have to see the pharmacist for the second one since I cannot read the handwriting. When we returned home there was a message to confirm an appointment for the Orthopedist on Wednesday. This was news to us since no appointment was made on the 22nd of December. I will contact them tomorrow to confirm. Right now everything looks good for the surgery in two weeks.

Tomorrow is my hair appointment. Will feel good to get a trim and some TLC for an hour. I will have the meds with me just in case. After the appointment we will do some marketing since everything didn’t go exactly as planned last week or over the weekend.

We really didn’t celebrate Valentine’s Day. Hubby will not be able to sit behind the wheel until his knee is working properly. I am hoping that after surgery the dementia will no longer exist. We are hoping that the problem is because of the knee and back pain. It will be a wait and see scenario. I will be contacting the physician for the ECHO sometime on Wednesday or Thursday.
I still have to make an appointment for the van maintenance.

Now it’s time for some shuteye. I’m glad you and hubby had such a nice day. Good to know that we are loved not only on Valentine’s Day, or our Anniversary or our Birthday, but everyday. It’s the little things that count, but it is always nice to get a little something to make the day brighter. I assume you are fast asleep. Hope your dreams are pleasant. Talk to you tomorrow.

@Sheba.🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 Happy Valentine’s Day🌷🌷🌷🌷🥀🥀🥀🥀⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Good Evening Sheba, I am so glad to read you and your husband are having a great celebration of Valentine’s Day. You are right, its the little things that makes it special.
The flowers sound beautiful, enjoy the chocolates and the flowers. The dinner must of been awesome too. I am also glad you had a great weekend with your hubby.
Take care Sheba and stay safe and warm.

@sheba2011

Dear Sheba, happy V Day to you, the queen of Oz!! Enjoy all your gifts and love from your husband. Sending hugs and kisses and a special smooch for Poppy.🤗🥰🤗🥰

Love Should Feel Good

Real love feels good and uplifting, not jealous or anxious, and does not compromise who you are as a person.

Often in our lives, we fall prey to the idea of a thing rather than actually experiencing the thing itself. We see this at play in our love lives and in the love lives of our friends, our family, and even fictional characters. The conceptualizing, depiction, and pursuit of true love are multimillion-dollar industries in the modern world. However, very little of what is offered actually leads us to an authentic experience of love. Moreover, as we grasp for what we think we want and fail to find it, we may suffer and bring suffering to others. When this is the case, when we suffer more than we feel healed, we can be fairly certain that what we have found is not love but something else.

When we feel anxious, excited, nervous, and thrilled, we are probably experiencing romance, not love. Romance can be a lot of fun as long as we do not try to make too much of it. If we try to make more of it than it is, the romance then becomes painful. Romance may lead to love, but it may also fade without blossoming into anything more than a flirtation. If we cling to it and try to make it more, we might find ourselves pining for a fantasy, or worse, stuck in a relationship that was never meant to last.

Real love is identifiable by the way it makes us feel. Love should feel good. There is a peaceful quality to an authentic experience of love that penetrates to our core, touching a part of ourselves that has always been there. True love activates this inner being, filling us with warmth and light. An authentic experience of love does not ask us to look a certain way, drive a certain car, or have a certain job. It takes us as we are, no changes required. When people truly love us, their love for us awakens our love for ourselves. They remind us that what we seek outside of ourselves is a mirror image of the lover within. In this way, true love never makes us feel needy or lacking or anxious. Instead, true love empowers us with its implicit message that we are, always have been, and always will be, made of love. AMEN! 💖✨✨

@kittengirl,

Happy Valentine’s Day in California wishing you and all a very good day. 🌹💕

@shoelady60,

Good day in the ‘burgh and may this be a warmer day for you. OZ is alright we have
some Sun. 😎🌹✨

Lady I do get Poppy a treat for Valentine’s Day Treat he loves it. 😜

I am missing Jake. I loved hearing you talk about him.

Happy Valentine’s Day to you and hubby. I see your sister and mom will be home
Wednesday I wonder what all they did and enjoyed. 😘😎

Have a wonderful day. 💖

@71flowergirl,

Howdy in Texas and Happy Valentine’s Day to you and the fur babies. 💕😘✨🌹

Enjoy the day. 🌹💕

@taci,

Good morning in S. California I believe congratulations are in order for the Rams winning
the Super Bowl. 😎Just giving you a shout out for that.

Happy Valentine’s Day and I hope it is a little bit cooler today. ✨😘

Happy Trails To You. 🎶🎶

I am pretty sure your State will have a celebration. 😘💕