Conversation – 17

This is for all the California and Florida Girls. 😎

Sheba, yea! glad your health is doing so well. Now keep up the great job!
You also have some great docs out there in Oz.
Yes, I think my son would really love Co. We tried to convince him that his trip was his
b-day/Xmas gift, haha, well you know how that goes. He works so hard so he deserves it.

You mentioned having all the Feng Shui rings so maybe you can answer this question?
Do you suggest sizing up? Does that warm green appeal to you? I can’t tell the color / shade green it is so I may get another color although time is running out. It’s final sale so maybe I will wait for another time.

Have a great weekend all!

Xango, sorry for your loss.

❤ this! Sweater and handbag!

@sheba2011

So glad your mams turned out well. I have mine next month. The year went by way too fast. I had to cancel all doctor appoiontments for the time being because of our roof and other concerns. I really do not wish to be away during the construction process. I will be back in the MB tomorrow first thing. Hubby’s closet is looking good. Need to do the floor and hang some of his clothing. Next is my closet and then I get to kick hubby out of the bed to redo from top to bottom. I need to move the bed way down to the other side of the room so I can sweep, dry mop and wash the floor. The fun part will be moving everything into place. I think I have the same mattress and box spring as you do. They will be removed tomorrow. Getting them off the bed is not much of a problem, it’s putting them back. I’m hoping hubby will be able to help me on this one and if not, will do the best I can.

Today my back is much better. Though we haven’t had rain in weeks, I am just wondering if the cooler temps are the reason. I turn the A/C off during the day and only use it prior to bed for the fan. If the temp is below 68, I keep everything off. Funny that the thermostats are felt differently in the North. There I feel warm when the temp is between 50 and 55 degrees. Here, that temp is too cold. Go figure…….

Enjoy the rest of your evening. Hope Charlie comes around and Poppy gets his walk for the night. Take care. Stay safe.

@xango,

I am sorry about the loss of your mother especially yesterday being the anniversary of her
passing. I hope I did not miss a post if you talked about it that is not my forte. 🌹✨
You are so sweet and I am so glad we are friends and thank you for the kudos on my
doctor’s visit and the fact I do not have to have another Mammogram until next year. 🌹

This little health issue has been a stressful and worrying about other family members so
sometimes I can be a real OZ Witch!! 💋Never to you my dear enjoy your evening Oz is cold
tonight.

@oodiebom,

Hubby and I both still have some sniffles we have the heat on and will be in the
20’s tonight. I will explain what the doctor visits are all about.

I still have like three more which completes the team and they all have to sign off
and see the Mammogram. I am so glad I do not have to go until this time next year.

I am doing a very happy dance and I can dance. 😜😎Cancer is a very lonely disease I
hate it as much as I do Covid and both have taken many members of my family.

Sleep well Oodie Trivia was interesting tonight. 🌹✨

@sheba2011

Congrats on the mam, I am so relieved and so are you!!😊👍

Hockey team won tonight in overtime, play the same team again tomorrow. One of our local high schools about 20 minutes from my home won the state championship for their division tonight.👏 It was a busy TV night.

Colder temps for the weekend and into next week. Mom and sis will not be happy.🥶😣 Still coughing, geez Louise.🤪

@shoelady60,

Great job on your Hockey Team winning. 😜😎🌹✨

Shoelady I was keeping up with the Game. Well done.

Peace Out Peeps just do you. ✨✨

@sheba2011

Yep, that’s our home in Ct.. Trees look just like the picture when the snow falls. It’s at this time of year I sometimes leave some fresh fruit out there for the animals.

I am really concerned that FBN has not been around for at least three or four weeks since being diagnosed with Covid. I just hope he is OK. Wonder if there are family members checking on him.
Anyway, it is now time for Trivia. Will write more later.

Oops. Congrats on a great checkup. You have a good crew working with you. Hope to see you in Trivia. No first question.

@Sheba🎄🎄🎄🎄

Good afternoon Sheba, yeah good news. That’s wonderful, you happy lady! 😊 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I will see you in Trivia Tonight. ❤️💜💗

Changing the Way We Relate

It is dishonest to enter into a relationship with the idea that you are going to change or fix them.

A relationship, in the truest sense of the word, means relating to another. Usually when we say that we relate to someone, it is because we’ve found common ground. But part of relating is finding ways to make ideas that seem different come together. So often when we choose relationships, we try to fit another person into our predetermined ideal. When they don’t fit perfectly, we may try to make them over, creating our own vision from the raw material they’ve brought. But unless someone asks for guidance and direction, entering into a relationship with someone we want to change is dishonest. Then our relationship becomes with someone we’ve imagined, and anytime our partner steps outside of that imaginary projection, we will be disappointed. An honest relationship is one in which we accept each other as whole individuals, and find a way to share our life experiences together. Then, whenever we want, we can choose as a couple to give the relationship a makeover by renewing the way we interact.

By wanting to give another person a makeover, we are basically saying we don’t accept them for who they are. If we take a moment to imagine the roles reversed, we can get a sense of how it would feel if our beloved only committed to us because they thought we were, or would become, someone else entirely. In such an environment, we are not relating to each other from a real place, and we are keeping ourselves from being able to learn and grow from the different viewpoints that our partners offer.

If we feel that a change is needed in our relationship, the only makeover that we truly have the power to make is on ourselves. By accepting our partners for exactly who they are — the ideal and the not-so-ideal — we will create an energetic shift in our relationships, and we may find ourselves really appreciating our partners for the first time. Working from within, we determine how we relate to the people and the world around us, and when we can accept it and embrace it all, without conditions, we make every act of relating a positive one. AMEN! ✨✨