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Oodie, thanks for you post with information about the shredder. I like the idea of a micro shredder and loved that it was a TS. Not sure yet where I will buy mine but I expect to decide by end of the month.
Happy you like the new comforter!
Hope you are able to get the vaccine soon. It’s been odd how some States that are smaller don’t even have age guidelines and other States have shortages. I am patiently waiting but my husband is ready to hop on a plane to Ohio ( not really maybe Mexico?, I am kidding but he wants it).
If and when I see some Dragon fruit, you know I will think of you and take the plunge.

true that!

@Sheba, so agree with this post’s message. Maybe add a hot shower to it.
I always miss my bed and shower. By the way, read it (food allergies post) 🙂

Tornado! omg. Glad you have a basement to take shelter in, that must have been a crazy feeling.

I will take a look a Ms. Heidi. You new pendant/pin – WOW! The colors and sparkle are lovely. Enjoy it in good health.

Been collecting items to get my Mothers taxes done.

The Fear of Appearing Dumb

Living in fear of sounding intelligent can rob your friends of knowing the real you

The universal need to be accepted by others can be a barrier that prevents us from being ourselves around them. When we fear that the people we encounter will perceive us as inept or unintelligent, we frequently try to flaunt our grasp of large words or clever witticisms or our professional expertise in an effort to convince them that we are smart and capable. The reasons for feeling this way can be many, and they can often stem from as far back as your childhood. Many women in particular have the fear that they may appear not smart. Yet overcompensating for this fear can have the opposite effect if others are driven away by what they see as an immodest attitude or sense that you are urgently trying to prove yourself. The simple desire to be judged smart by both new and old acquaintances can cause you to reject your true self and adopt an affected persona. But in trying so persistently to project an image of supreme intelligence or capability, you deny others the opportunity to become acquainted with the real and terrific individual you truly are.

The fear that others will perceive you as unintelligent can further influence your behavior, causing you to consciously avoid speaking your mind or asking questions. You may feel uncomfortable participating in activities if there is a chance that you won’t excel or taking part in discussions with others who may have more knowledge than you. In essence, you become ashamed of who you are and attempt to encase your identity in a veneer that others will find pleasing and impressive. It is, however, a common fear — one experienced by almost everyone at some point in their lives. The simplest way to combat it is to make a personal commitment to being yourself in your home, your workplace, and among strangers. Ask yourself how you believe the individuals you encounter will react should you speak awkwardly, need clarification, or fail to be the best at some activity. By being yourself, you will discover that all people make mistakes and ask questions and that others will like and respect you because they recognize the goodness in your soul.

The fact that you are willing to be yourself, letting your many affirmative attributes express themselves naturally, will help you make a positive first impression on everyone you meet and earn the esteem of your family and friends. Your confidence and easygoing manner will say, “this is who I am and I am proud of the person I have become.” AMEN to that. 😎

@kittengirl,

Blessings to you and the family. 🌹

Cherie,

Have a safe day in S. California. May you and the children be blessed. I miss ya. 😘💕

@shoelady60,

Good day in the ‘burgh. 😘😎Happy St. Patrick’s Day almost. I hope you can share
it with your mother and sister. 💕Did your Hockey Team win last night? No worries
there is always next time. 😘

In Club Sheba I will make you something yummy. 🤣

Give Jake a nice chilly OZ hug. Poppy is wagging his tail.

@71flowerchild,

Good afternoon in Texas I am pretty sure you are busy. Take care of Jewell and Little D.
Have fun on St. Patrick’s Day. 😎

@taci,

Good Morning in S. California. 😘💕Enjoy the view and I hope all is well with you.

Check out Heidi Daus. 😘💕😎

@oodiebom,

Good afternoon in Florida. I do hope you were able to make your vaccine appt.

I am going to start mine this week. Heads up in case you don’t have one Heidi
has a Star of David at a great price. 😎 I did buy some strawberries and I am in
heaven next on the list is the Dragon Fruit if I get lucky. 🤣

Oodie when I saw the double rainbow yesterday I knew it was my father. 😘💕
We do have a safe place in the basement and it is separate from the living area.

Just chilly in OZ today. 😘💕

@bichon18,

Good Afternoon in Florida. Be safe and have a nice day. Amy I hope you and Jerry
are having a good time. I think it is time for some of your famous Key Lime Pie. 🤣😘😎

Please give Chloe and little Ari a nice chilly OZ pet. 🤣😎

OMG! This is hilarious I have posted this for the past seven years on this thread. 🤣😘😎

@ddshoppy,

Good Morning in S. California. Have fun with the kids. 😘💕Please let me know when
the big day comes. Have a safe St. Patrick’s Day. 😎

@defg,

Good afternoon in Maryland. Happy St. Patrick’s Day if I don’t see a post from you.
Be safe and have fun. 😎

@loaf,

Good day in the rock and roll capital. Be safe. 😘😎💕