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Seeking Advice from Yourself

When in a quandary, the best advice often comes from inside rather than outside.
Since we probably know ourselves better than anyone else does, then we may very well be the best person to ask for advice when we are in a quandary. One interesting exercise is to try asking for advice from your past and future selves. There is the younger self that you used to be and the older, more mature self that you will become. You can gain a different perspective when you view present situations through your younger self’s eyes or your mature self’s more experienced point of view. Perhaps, your younger self would view a current dilemma in a more innocent, less cynical way. Likewise, your older, hopefully wiser, self may offer advice from a more compassionate, experienced perspective.

Think back to how you viewed the world when you were younger. What were your thoughts on happiness, love, and injustice? Think about how you would have reacted to a dilemma you are currently facing. The perspective may shed a different light on relationships, money matters, or life decisions. Likewise, think about the person you will become. A more mature version of you might mull a problem or conflict over carefully before taking action right away… or perhaps not. Maybe your older self would be more willing to take risks, care less about what other people think, and want to enjoy life more.

You can even set up an advisory panel of your past, present, and future selves. You might even want to try to have a written dialogue with your selves to record the thoughts, feelings, and advice that your younger and older selves might have for your present self regarding a current situation. Your different selves can give you some invaluable answers. After all, no one can know you better than yourselves. You are your wisest guide. ✨✨

@kittengirl,

Good Morning Kitten in California wishing you a great day. ✨✨

@shoelady60,

Good day in the ‘burgh. Good luck to your Hockey Team tonight. ✨😎

Oz is alright for a Monday still have projects I am working on.

How is your mother and sister and I am glad you had time with them this weekend. 🌹

Enjoy the game. ✨😘

A little Tea to start your day.

@taci,

Good morning in S. California and may this day finds you doing well.
Enjoy the hike. 😎✨I hope the weather for the State of California gets better.

Happy Trails To You. 🎶🎶

@oodiebom,

Good day on the Gulf Coast of Florida. Oodie I am glad your husband is feeling better.
I hope this last for a while. Good luck at the doctor’s office on Wednesday.

Remember tomorrow. 🌹💕😎 I hope all the workmen schedule works with yours.
Oodie there is a lot to be done before heading North. I would not leave either until
all the work was done and finished.

Oodie you are a great cook too. I will be knocking on your door one day. 😎

Stay warm sounds like your area got hit with some cold weather. Holy Smokes.

Here is to a warmer week.

@xango,

Good afternoon in Florida. I hope it is warmer there today. OZ is alright for a Monday. 😎✨

I am hitting the floor running meaning I have a project here and there.

I will be looking at the Video you posted later today. .💕I am feeling somewhat better
not at full speed yet but I am getting there.

I would love some of your homemade bread and soup. ✨✨

I don’t know if your husband is off work today but if he is enjoy the day. 🌹

@loaf,

Good morning in Ohio Loaf and here is to a good week for you and your family. Miss ya. 😎🌹

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