Conversation – 18

Happy Anniversary Oodiebom and hubby. 💕

@Sheba

Good evening Sheba, I hope you had a good day.
I am sorry for the loss of your family member.
No cooking today, had leftovers. Spent a good part of the day on the phone. First talking the the Walmart store we get groceries delivered from. Then the company that does the delivery. And lastly the 800 Walmart customer service. Somehow the system won’t allow my address to receive groceries delivery.
It’s been a nightmare, started last week, I though it was resolved. Tried ordering today their system wanted to delivere to what was once the model house. But would not take my address, even though I have been receiving delivery since July last year. The strange thing is no one can figure it out to actually help. All they can say is the system isn’t excepting delivery at that address. Other people in the community are able to receive and some are not.
So I had to cancel my order, because I didn’t want them to deliver to the wrong house.
And I ordered from Kroger. I guess we will have to pick up from the store, but I might just not shop at all there. I might just start using Instacart again.

No adventures last night, and I am not placing food out there anymore either.
The little creatures will have to find their own food.
The Moon was beautiful last night and its full tonight.

Take care Sheba ❤️❤️🌷🌷

Happy Anniversary to Oodiebom and hubby. 😘🌹✨

Happy over 50 years Anniversary Oodiebom. 🌹💕✨

This is for you and your husband.

Club Sheba Oodiebom’s Anniversary Edition. 💕😎

@oodiebom

Thinking of you and Mr. Oodie. Congrats on your anniversary and give him an extra hug from me.🤗💕🥂

@sheba2011

Good afternoon, wow, what a day I’ve had. Never stopped running, had a few extra, not planned places to go and I am down for the count.☹ Pancakes, eggs and/or bacon for dinner, can’t handle anything harder.🥞🍳🥓

Glad your mom is doing okay. Having a large family makes this seem like it happens too often.😪🙏

I hope tomorrow is calm, need to catch up on some things at home. I just may fall asleep during the game tonight, especially if it’s boring.😴 Hugs and kisses back to you and Poppy.🤗🥰💖

@kittengirl,

Kitten may this day find you doing well be safe my friend. ✨✨

Argument

The emotional trigger that begins an argument may have little to do with your present situation, but has dug up a wound.

When we find ourselves in an argument, we may feel like we are losing control of emotions that have taken on lives of their own. When we can become aware that this is happening, taking a deep breath can help us step back from the situation. Once we can separate ourselves from the heat of the moment, we may find that the emotional trigger that began the argument has little to do with the present situation, but may have brought up feelings related to something else entirely. Looking honestly at what caused our reaction allows us to consciously respond more appropriately to the situation and make the best choices.

We can make an agreement with our partners and those closest to us that asking questions can help all of us discover the source of the argument. The shared awareness can result in finding simple solutions to something physical, like low blood sugar or even a hormonal surge. Maybe we are taking ourselves too seriously, and we can just laugh and watch the tension dissolve. We could also discover that perhaps we are addicted to the excitement that drama brings and the chemicals that our body creates when we are angry. But there may be a deeper issue that requires discussion, understanding, and patience. The more we allow ourselves to step back and examine our reasons for arguing, the easier it becomes to allow real feelings to surface and guide us toward solutions that improve our lives.

When we can be clear about our feelings and intentions and communicate them clearly, we have a far better chance of getting what we want than if we lose control or allow our subconscious minds to manipulate the situation. We might take our frustrations out on the people closest to us because we feel safe and comfortable with them, but misplaced anger can cause more harm than good. Arguing for what we truly believe can empower us and help us to direct our passions toward greater life experiences. Truly knowing our reasons for arguing enables us to grow emotionally in ways that will affect our whole being. AMEN! ✨✨

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@shoelady60,

Good day in the ‘burgh. Lady I know you have a busy schedule today. I hope everything
turns out fine. ✨

I am alright today but still upset with the death of another cousin. My mother is more calm
today as that was her late sister’s daughter. 🌹

Hey good luck with your Hockey Team playing tonight what a day you will be having.
Blowing a gentle hug from Oz to you and Jake’s Canvas. 😘😘