Conversation – 18

Peace Out Peeps enjoy your evening remember to look up I’ll wave at ya. 😎✨

@sheba2011

Good evening. No humidity this evening, but the temps during the day with full sun felt more than the middle 80s. I never made it to costco or to Lowes. What I did do was a search of urologists in our area. There was one that supposedly had a good reputation, but after doing tons of research found out it was all wet behind the noodle. I was able to find recent reviews which told me that others were having the same problem reaching the physicians. For some reason the doctors do not have a receptionist and rely on voice or e-mail. The patients leave countless messages with no response. One case needed antibiotics and was told she could pick up the prescription on her way home. When she was able to get to the store and see the pharmacist, there was no prescription, so she made a phone call immediately. Reached voice mail instead. 3 months later, still no pills, but she has a new doctor and she is now happy. I must have read tons of reviews. There was not one thing positive. I then did some other research and found a beginning and spoke to the head nurse this evening. He will be making calls tomorrow. At least we are on a path. I will be happy with this as a start and to follow up in boston when we return. I am thinking about making a stop at John Hopkins in Baltimore ,MD, even though it means taking the I-95 corridor.

The last three days hubby has been awake when I arrive. He is having a lot of lower back and knee pain. The knee that was supposed to be reconstructed is OK. The other knee is quite swollen and he is having problems moving around. When the nurses enter to make him more comfortable he screams with pain. I mentioned that it would probably be better if they sit him in a chair or wheelchair when making the bed. They do give him a nightly sponge bath that also takes care of the itches. Also, today was the second time in a week that he wanted to go to the bathroom. I could not help him because of the catheter. Besides, I slipped on something in the kitchen and had a nasty fall. Thank goodness nothing broken. Was able to get up without a problem.

Definitely, Lowes tomorrow. That bathroom is a total disaster and hubby will not be able to return home until it is redone. I did find a few things online. There are a couple of vanities and a few linen closets to look at when I’m in the store. The waterproof flooring I will look at while there as well. Actually, this will be the first stop. The one I really liked requires glue. I would rather have interlocking. Oh yes, I have the ones I want to look at in a small notebook with their model numbers.

Did not see a moon this evening. May have rain on Sunday, but not holding my breath. Last night and tonight the sunset was pretty with a pink sky. No traffic on the return and made all the lights and the one stop sign. Was home in 10 minutes. Now will start getting ready for the frig delivery on Monday. Will first clean the freezer bags. Then will look for some missing paperwork for the taxes. Have a great evening and then some.

@Sheba

Hello Sheba, and Happy Easter week.🌷🌷🌷⚘️⚘️⚘️🌷🌷🌷
In one week we will have Holy Thursday. I am looking into what to make for Thursday evening and for Good Friday.
How are you doing and how are your projects coming along?
We could use some gentle rain, none is in the forecast.

I am starting the Ciabatta starter dough again. It’s not progressing the way it should. As I was mixing the dough I kept thinking I did something wrong. Then I thought, did I use the correct amount of water. I think I used the amount of water that goes to the second part of the dough and not the amount that goes to the first part.😝😬😆
Worst case, I end up with a little more bread.

The Hibiscus are blooming away. 🌺 🌺 🌺. The Sage has come back and are filled with growth.

I still couldn’t see the sky at night, somehow it’s cloudy during the night. All I could see was the illumination of the Moon trying to peek through.

Enjoy the rest of your day, have a wonderful walk with Poppy. 🌺🌺🌺🌺

The Cycle of Life

Dealing with an aging parent is part of the challenges and blessings that are part of the cycle of life.

For most of us, a natural part of the cycle of life is when our roles as children start to shift from that into caretaking roles where our parents are concerned. This can be as major as moving a parent into a retirement facility, or coming to the realization that it’s necessary to check in with them more often than usual. Whatever the case, such a shift is momentous as it signals a time of confronting our own mortality as we confront that of our parents. In addition, it can bring up issues about how well they cared for us when we were young. We may also find ourselves consumed with fear at the thought of losing them, even if we’ve been on our own for a very long time.

Talking to other friends and family who are going through similar experiences can be a large source of support. They can help us look at both the unresolved past and the unfolding present, and we are free to talk only about ourselves. Sometimes we need the kind of undivided attention a friend can offer in order to deal with the material that comes up at this time of our lives.

In many ways, this time of life signals a rebirth as we examine our individual past, as well as our familial past. As our parents’ lives move toward completion, we are able to see what they did with their time on earth, what we have done so far with our time, and what we might want to do with the time we have left. These challenges and blessings are all part of the cycle of life. AMEN!✨✨

@kittengirl,

Good morning in California wishing you well Kitten. ✨🌹

@shoelady60,

Good afternoon in the ‘burgh. ✨💕🌹Here is to a great day for you.

Tomorrow is Mom Friday so enjoy this day. 😎😘🌹

Blowing a kiss and hug to you and Jake’s Canvas. ✨

@taci,

Good morning in S. California. ✨😎 I hope your rains are light and no damages.
Thank you for your nice post. 💕

Here is to a great day hiking so Happy Trails To You. 😘😎✨

@oodiebom,

Good afternoon on the Gulf Coast of Florida. ✨🌹Oodie I hope you were able to pick
out your water proof flooring. I see you have a lot going on.

Oodie the week is moving too fast. I hope you found some good food for Passover.
This is where time just goes on really fast.

The trucks just picked up everything I had at the curb. 😎✨

The heavens was just beautiful last night. I stood in the front with Poppy.

Oz is not too bad today a few clouds and a few light drizzles I am fine with that.

I hope you made it to Costco yesterday and hubby enjoy the hotdog treat. ✨

Let me know how things are going so far for you today. Take your time no rush on
anything.

@xango,

Good afternoon in sunny Florida. ✨😎🌹Wishing you a nice Thursday.
Oz is fine we will have some light showers no planting just yet.

I hope your Ciabatta Bread turns out great. ✨😎 I am doing spring projects
here and there never a dull moment in this house.

I know the Bread takes 48 hours for the starter dough I would love to know how it
turns out.

May you get some gentle rain. ✨😎

@loaf,

Good morning have a wonderful Thursday miss ya. 😎🌹