Conversation – 15

So funny Sheba, that would be their brother’s bowl …. For a Little guy he Eats! Lucky for us like his Dad he doesn’t care too much for sweets, they’re meat & potato Kings … LOL. A music festival sounds like Fun, Cherie is so happy to read it didn’t trigger another headache. Like a True LEO …. GET RID of IT, My Good Friend sings that song about every 6 months. Ireland …. Seriously Sheba? Cherie has never been out of the country ( too Scary ) for me. Wow, who knows maybe you will find a Forever Home Sheba♥ … Shout Out to All the Girls.

Peace Out Peeps! Please enjoy your evening and be safe.

Oh Cherie the Moon is Magnificent tonight. Look up and I will wave at ya. ♥
Loaf you are missed. Girls shout out to all.

RIP Mcpoopoo we all miss you. ♥

Diane Gilman started her career designing for some of the world’s biggest rock ‘n’ roll stars. Decades later, she has earned the title of “HSN’s Jean Queen” with legions of dedicated fans. DG2 by Diane Gilman features chic separates and accessories to enliven a classic wardrobe. Her versatile collections are anchored in denim, with multiple fabrications to suit every taste, shape and style. She’s constantly updating popular silhouettes with solution technology, trend-right color, unique finishes, embellishments and exclusive prints, keeping the emphasis on comfort and fit — because every woman deserves a flattering wardrobe to complement her dynamic life.

4 my girls in Cali. 🙂

Locating The Underlying Cause

Once you’ve taken the time to inquire within, you can begin to make changes that address the deeper issue.

Often, when we’re unhappy, we fall into the habit of thinking that, if only one or two particular things in our life would change, everything would be fine. We might focus on the fact that we need a new car, or a raise, or a change in our living situation. We dwell on this one thing and strategize, or complain, or daydream about what it would be like to have it. Meanwhile, underneath the surface, the real reason for our unhappiness sits unrecognized and unaddressed. And yet, if we are able to locate and explore the underlying cause of our discontent, all the surface concerns have a way of working themselves out in the light of our realization.

Maybe we really do just need a new car, and maybe moving to another city would improve our life situation. However, it can only help to take some time to explore what’s going on at a deeper level. Sometimes, when we take a moment and stop focusing on external concerns, we get to the heart of the matter. We might realize that all our lives we’ve been dissatisfied, grasping at one thing after another, only to be dissatisfied about something else once we get what we want. Or perhaps we’ll notice a pattern of running away from a place, or a relationship, when things get too hard. We might then wonder why this keeps happening, and how we might work through the difficulty rather than just escaping it. The point is, slowing down and turning our attention within can save us a lot of energy in the long run, because it is very often the case that there is no external change that will make us happy.

Once you’ve taken the time to inquire within, you can begin to make changes that address the deeper issue. This can be hard at first, especially if you’ve grown used to grasping for outside sources in order to quell your discontent, but in the end, you will be solving the problem at a deeper level, and it will be much less likely to recur.

Singing this to Diane Gilman ♥

Mariah Carey
“Hero”

There’s a hero
If you look inside your heart
You don’t have to be afraid
Of what you are
There’s an answer
If you reach into your soul
And the sorrow that you know
Will melt away

And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you’ll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you

It’s a long road
When you face the world alone
No one reaches out a hand
For you to hold
You can find love
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt
Will disappear

And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you’ll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you

Lord knows
Dreams are hard to follow
But don’t let anyone
Tear them away
Hold on
There will be tomorrow
In time
You’ll find the way

And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you’ll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
That a hero lies in you
That a hero lies in you

This is Diane Gilman. ♥

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