Conversation – 15

Diva and all the Heidi Girls,

This is my baby coming with all my Heidi Daus pieces.

@Sheba, I know your watching Ms Heidi! Thanks for the shout out below. I am going to watch some shows tonight. Haven’t bought the TS yet but like the Hematite/Clear. Can’t wait to hear about what you and everyone got.

Got 5 miles in yesterday so I can watch today. It gets dark so early now.
We have warm days and cool nights, so it’s awesome!

@cherie and @kittengirl, the elections were so disappointing. Just like when I try to pay the lotto. Not one thing I voted for passed and I didn’t get even one number on the last lottery ticket bought.

@Sheba,
Good Morning and Happy Heidi Day! 😀 I hope I get the lion pin too but so far I cannot connect to the site. Maybe it’s a sign? Lol! I will keep trying.
Thank you so much for the basket of goodies! Yummy in my tummy! Yes, I will share. Lol!
I think I told you on Heidi’s thread that I got the suite in multi/jet. I can’t wait for it to get here. Yes, I will watch my fingers! Lol! And I will be good. 😀
We had fun with our grandson and my daughter was able to join us later for dinner. Everyone loved it. We made plans for Thanksgiving. I wish my son didn’t live so far away. I miss him so much.
Hope you have a fun day watching Heidi. 😀

@taci,

I hope you can catch some shows today with Heidi. Enjoy your day and walk.
I am multi-tasking today. 🙂

@loaf,

How are things in your neck of the woods? I am missing you so much. Kisses to your MIL.
I hope you are watching some of the Heidi Shows. ♥

Healthy Barriers

Maintaining healthy boundaries is about recognizing the point at which our principles, and those of our loved ones, no longer overlap.

As relationships evolve, lives gradually become entwined. We tend to have a great deal in common with the people who attract us, and our regard for them compels us to trust their judgment. While our lives may seem to run together so smoothly that the line dividing them cannot be seen, we remain separate beings. To disregard these barriers is to sacrifice independence. It is our respect for the fact that our lives exist independently of the lives of others that allows us to set emotional and physical boundaries, to explore our interests and capabilities even when people close to us do not understand our partialities, and to agree to disagree. Maintaining healthy barriers is a matter of recognizing the point at which our principles and those of our loved ones and peers no longer overlap.

Human beings must relentlessly fight the temptation to follow the crowd. Naturally, we want to be liked, accepted, and admired, and it often seems that the easiest way to win approval is to ally ourselves with others. When we assume that our standards are the same as those of the people close to us without first examining our own intentions, we do ourselves a disservice. The barriers that exist between us are a reminder that our paths in life will be unique, and we must each accept that “I” and “we” can coexist peacefully. Our reactions, our likes and dislikes, our loves, our goals, and our dreams may or may not align with those of others, but we should neither ask others to embrace what we hold dear nor feel compelled to embrace what they hold dear.

As you learn to define yourself as an emotionally and intellectually distinct individual, you will grow to appreciate your autonomy. However much you enjoy the associations that bind you to others and provide you with a sense of identity, your concept of self will ultimately originate in your own soul. The healthy barriers that tell you where you end and the people around you begin will give you the freedom to pursue your development apart from those whose approval you might otherwise be tempted to seek out. Others will continue to play a role in your existence, but their values will not direct its course, and the relationships you share will remain marvelously balanced and harmonious as a result.

Cherie good morning,

I sure did get my Heidi Daus Fix. ♥ I have a beautiful Nativity Scene I can’t wait to
put out. I mean this is the top of the line and huge. I have a space for it and it is
something I have wanted for a long time. A neighbor had it listed still wrapped and
boxed and sold it to me for a song. 🙂 I may take a picture of this once I have it up. I will
not start until after Thanksgiving. I am in Thanksgiving mode already. Chilly day but I
am wrapped real good. The East Coast seem to have cooler weather too.
Cherie enjoy your day and thank you for posting. I love the pic. ♥

@kittengirl,

I hope you are enjoy Heidi’s Visit. I love hearing her laugh. 🙂 I hope you get the Lion Pin
Faire posted. ♥ Be good and watch those fingers. LOL! I hope you and hubby had fun with your grandson.
Enjoy this with your family.

@bichon18,

Good Morning you were up early. 🙂 I love your choices in the Heidi Daus TS. ♥ I did get
the Multi Suite. ♥ You can wear this a lot of ways. Hey the day is still young and Heidi Daus
has more shows coming up. Be sure to catch the list with Colleen Lopez as she will
feature Heidi’s new fashion line. 🙂 I hope you and Jerry have a wonderful day. 🙂

Heidi Daus Live Stream Pleated Scarf
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Heidi Daus Elegant Solution Blouson Dress
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Heidi Daus Signature Accent Open-Front Jacket
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Heidi Daus Classic Edition Topper
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These are Heidi Daus Brand New Fashions and will be featured on The List with Colleen Lopez ♥