Conversation – 15

@mcpoopoo,

Always in our thoughts and prayers. ♥

Divorce With Grace

If you are experiencing divorce, look into your inner heart for guidance and surround yourself with loving friends.

Like the act of marriage that binds two people together, divorce is the result of a life-altering decision. It is the dissolving of a relationship that we believed would last our whole lives. We may not even be able to articulate how we got to this place, yet we may also feel we have no choice but to sever this tie. Whatever we feel, we need the support of the friends and family who will stand by us no matter what we decide. At some point, we may need to be challenged to look deeper inside ourselves as we make this very important decision, but what we need most of all is unconditional love and loyalty.

Divorce is a process that, once in motion, becomes difficult to stop, and this can be painful if we find ourselves having second thoughts. We may feel that we should do more to save the marriage, or we may wonder if there is something about ourselves that we could fix or change instead of going through with this painful separation. On the other hand, we may be seeing in hindsight that our marriage was truly only meant to last for a short time so that we could learn something we needed to know. Whatever the case, we need friends who will allow us to linger in confusion when we don’t have the answers and who will support us whether we find ways to reconcile and stay married or whether we walk away.

Of course, the most essential ally we have lives inside our hearts and speaks to us from within. We can trust this inner guide to help us choose people who will support us in kind and loving ways as we navigate the rough terrain of confusion and loss. Sometimes all we can do is look to the horizon, remembering that we will get through this time, and no matter what happens we will once again feel whole.

Cherie,

I was very surprised by Nicky Butler leaving HSN. I did not see that coming. Nicky is such
a lovely man and I have covered him on this Thread. I will never forget the Pin you brought
for your daughter I hope she treasures it always. ♥

I am glad everyone had fun just being together. Fairemaiden a Community Member that
taught me how to post pics is having heart surgery today and we are all praying for her.
I know Mcpoopoo special day is coming too. Bichon18 have a birthday coming up soon.

I do wish shows that run a long time have a proper ending. Who knows the X-Files just
may come back if the writing is good any show can return. 🙂 Cherie I hope the rain left
something good. ♥

@kittengirl,

I know you are in the wind today. A lot on your plate I am sure. Wishing you well in
everything today. Take your time and get your rest. Kitten you are in all our prayers
and thoughts. 🙂

@bichon18,

Wishing you and Jerry a great day with little Ari. I love your story about the encounter in
the Elevator now that I think about it he may have thought you were famous too.

Wait a minute when is your Birthday? I will do a gallery for you too. ♥ It’s a little thing I
do for people if they want it. 🙂

I wonder what the Marla Wynne TS will be too. ♥ Hugs to little Ari.

4 Faire ♥

When the sun shines, we shine together
Told you I’ll be here forever
Said I’ll always be your friend
Took an oath that I’m a stick it out ’til the end
Now that it’s raining more than ever
Know that we still have each other
You can stand under my umbrella
You can stand under my umbrella, ella, ella, eh, eh, eh
Under my umbrella, ella, ella, eh, eh, eh
Under my umbrella, ella, ella, eh, eh, eh

HSN TS

Cubii Jr. Compact Under-Desk Elliptical with Monitor & Nonslip Mat
649-319

I want this. ♥

Diva in NC,

This is for you and yes I am very concerned about Faire. We have been pals for so long.
Faire taught me how to post pics from HSN and how to post pics in general her and
another HSN Poster. Faire created a monster. LOL!

We have done several threads together. I am always with her on the Play by Play if the
Patriots are playing the whole HSN Community joins in. 🙂

I am sure she will be fine. My heart and prayers are with her. ♥

Go Faire fight it. ♥

I am thinking of Faire today, I am praying for Faire .

Sheba Dear … What can Cherie say. I think @kittengirl said it Best, “We just Love each other in such a Special way, some things just get revealed. Game series comes on at a time that’s too busy for Cherie, I figure some time I will binge watch it. Oh Sheba ….Cherie really misses X-Files in the worst way, now that show I made time to sit and watch that with hubby …. it was fun. I’m not sure what happened but I really wish they would put out a final series, a book, a comic book, or even a cartoon!!! You know it Sheba …. Cherie is NOT happy about the Nicky B. news … What’s going on around here. Thank You for your calming words on “how not to worry about the community” … You know Cherie well. Great Words of Wisdom Sheba♥ …. Take Care Everyone!

@bichon18 … Such a great elevator Omar story. It sounds like an Awesome opening for a Great Romance Novel!!

@kittengirl … Cherie dosen’t like mixing metals either. I’ve never had Mexican meatball soup but yes, on the cabbage soup. Kitten, I figured you were struggling with your electrolytes just by some of the things you mention. Your magnesium & Vita D are probably a little low too, but that’s just my humble opinion. It’s a lot to type, but in a nutshell red rice has a very similar substance like that in the RX statin drugs and has a high propensity to have the same negative effects, just a suggestion, give A.L.’s vitamins a go first. Oh and Kittengirl …. YES, You are THE KITTENGIRL!

@Sheba,

Good night! I posted to you and bichon down the page a bit. Sleep well! Tomorrow is a busy day for me and a big one for Faire. See you tomorrow!

@bichon18, @Sheba,

Aww, thanks! Everything you say is true. I am me though but my weight gain has been very hard on me. And my heart issues tire me, getting dressed is a chore some days. The weight is what has effected me the most because I’ve always had a good figure and always dressed nice, very Marilyn Monroe-ish. I got attention and now, I just feel invisible. But, as my daughter tells me, I have a great light inside of me and a life-loving personality that cannot be squashed so I just have to find my way back. I am working on it – all of it – my health, my weight. I’m not comfortable with attention now because I have purposely down played myself for a few years due to my insecurity over my weight gain. I know it will take time. Some days I feel like looking good and others, well, just too tired. Oh, don’t get me wrong, I haven’t given up! When I say I dress down, I mean that I wear jeans, a nice sweater and some nice jewelry or scarf. What I would love to wear if I had the confidence would be something else. It is hard to accept myself like this because I know I can do so much better! Ok, maybe not NOW but after the surgery!
I hope that is not too much information there. Thanks so much for your encouragement. It really means a lot to me!
And yes, Amy, I AM the kittengirl! 😀 Hugs Ladies! 😀

Diva,

Hello Diva in NC tomorrow I will make you something special. ♥ I am glad you love
your new Heidi Daus all 5 sets. 🙂