When someone calls u hurtful things, how do u brush them off? I am a sensitive person.
Thanks to all of u who commented after what happened yesterday. I stopped reading posts and spent the rest of Sunday w my boyfriend and dog. It ended up being a pretty good day. I would like to thank each one of u personally, but there r so many wonderful comments! I did not expect such a response. Your kind and loving words mean much more to me than what that person said to me. From the bottom of my heart, thank y’all so very much. I cannot express into words how much your support means to me. :heart:
I would just ignore them :smileywink: Don’t let them get to you and the best thing you can do for yourself is to just move on and not dwell in it. You have people who appreciates you and love you for who you are. Take care!
?, I’m so sorry that someone said something hurtful to you. You’ve been very nice to me.
I’m not a very sensitive person. If a relative or sibling said something hurtful to me, it may affect me differently, but if a friend, co-worker, aquaintance, or someone on cyber world said something hurtful, I would be able to brush it off.
People who are unhappy or have low self-esteem are the ones who love to put people down in order to feel better about themselves. I consider the source and brush off my shoulder.
If it’s a family member, then I would want to know why they are making rude and hurtful comments. One of my SILs tends to make rude comments to me any chance she gets. I’m not witty when it comes to quick comebacks, but when I do, I tell her back. I don’t think she’s a happy person, so I consider the source.
Hope things get better for you.
I am sensitive too. I know how you feel.
On-line people can be especially mean. I’ve always felt that a person can’t be very happy themself, to be so full of hate.
I like the saying, “Be kinder than necessary…..everyone you meet is fighting some sort of battle.”
Please try to not let it bother you. I know that’s easier said than done. I’m pretty sensitive, too. One very good thing for me, though: I’m not as thin-skinned as I was when I was younger. Have a wonderful day! :smileyhappy:
I am a very senstive person as well:)
I try to think positive but at times its very hard to do:)
There are so much negitive going on in this world:)
Think peace and love:)
Its hard to just brush or ignore because I am so senstive:)
Good luck and best wishes everybody:)
May sunshine enter the world with gladness:)
Thank you for sharing:)
I haven’t read on these forums anyone making those comments to you but I do believe you that it was said as I too have had a poster make rude comments to me. I chose to ignore her and I hoped that her medication dose will be increased by her doctor soon as obviously she was someone in need of good strong stuff. :womanlol: :womanwink: I also had checked out her personal board (you just click on their name) and she had no reviews under her name and nothing in a wish list. So she was obviously a troll and most likely using several accounts to access these boards. Poor thing. I do have a hard time brushing off rude comments and I seem to never forget them.
? ? it’s interesting that, we three, (and ?) find it difficult to brush something off. this is even more reason to be careful with words. i don’t ever want to be an agent of pain. hugs to all.
I tend to be sensitive as well, and it is difficult for me to “brush” anything off that I find hurtful.
Personally I find that focusing on other things for awhile to be very helpful. I enjoy crafting, playing with my dogs, etc. When I am feeling hurt in any way I often take refuge in those things that bring me joy.
The world is not always happy, kind, fair, or understanding. I think we all need our ways to cope and feel better when anything has made us feel hurt, or sad. If it makes you smile… now is the time to enjoy it.
? My heart breaks for you. I too am a sensitive person and almosts 60 years old and people’s words still hurt. I retreat into myself and as many times as I say to myself it is them I don’t believe it. From all I have read or seen you write on here I think you are a very special young woman who has overcome much and should be so proud of yourself. Please try to ignore the mean people in this world, it is what I try to do. I wish I could hug you and tell you everything will be ok but I cant so please accept that we all care for you here and would never intentionally hurt you.
? i am so sorry that you have been hurt. words matter. opinion is important, and we all want people to be empowered, but WORDS MATTER. they have weight. they can pierce us, mind and soul and it sometimes can spill over to the physical as we might be unable to process the attack.
personally, i can get really wounded and i retreat. i am not good at thinking someone is a “hater” and “it’s them, not me” so i understand that you are hurt. i would be wounded and hurt, too. i find it impossible to brush something off. i take a long time to rebuild. all i can say is, read our comments and breathe in the love and support. journal your feelings. have a good cry. make a deal with your higher power. breathe. then, pamper yourself with your perlier. read the supportive posts again. repeat. WE:heart:KEMI! : nikcatsad:
AND if i, in any way, have offened you i am deeply sorry and I ask your forgiveness
I started a new Thread but you have to go under “talking amongst yourselves” to see it. I don’t know how to get it on the main board and HSN has obviously “STOPPED” anyone from posting anything on the “Coupon Equality” thread. Please go to “talking amongst yourselves” to see my post.
Kemi, I am reading your post & I then see all these beautiful people replying wonderful replies to you and that is because you are a wonderful, beautiful & helpful person. Ignore the “haters”. Jealousy always rears its ugly head!!!!!! Pay no mind to this. Some people only post nasty comments, I never see them post anything that adds value to the community. They only post to belittle others. I guess it makes them feel more superior behind their desks but in actuality any one that has some couth realizes how much it really makes them look. I bet these kinds of people have loads of friends & what a joy they would be to have to sit beside in the workplace.
Please ignore them, Be your happy, beautiful self & let their negative comments slide right off your back. They are not worth it. And knowing they are getting to you would only make them feel more self righteous. Flick them off like a piece of lint!!!!
What makes me wonder is why they even come to the forum??? If they accuse people of having too much time on their hands
1- It’s NONE of THEIR business how much time YOU spend on line
2- THEY must be spending too much of THEIR time reading the forums & taking the time to spit out venom!!!!!!!!!!
Kemi, ignore this person. EVERY post ever made by this person has been to chew out and tell posters that their issues are unimportant and they have too much time on their hands. See my response on Coupon Equality.
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07.30.16 9:11 PM