When someone calls u hurtful things, how do u brush them off? I am a sensitive person.
Today, on this forum, I have been called:
someone w too much time on her hands
someone wo a life
kemiqueen , that is sad . I am so sorry that you are being verbally abused . YES words do hurt .
Buy knowing most absolutely adore you!!!:heart::heart::heart::heart:
Sorry you feel you were personally attacked. Since that’s against the guidelines, you can always report the post as inappropriate.
Kemiqueen, You are wonderful, awesome, helpful, fun and always try to help others with your beauty tips and coupons. Does all of that wash against the negative nelly?
Shine on as haters are gonna hate and there is a never a need to call someone hurtful names. No mature, kind, reasonable person would do that.
Brush it off and ‘Carry On’!
Don’t feel bad!
And,definitely don’t let it ruin your day!
Last time I complained about coupons
a gang of people buried me alive…
belittled,and made me look like a fool!
You’d have thought they owned HSN!
I just flipped them the finger on my end!
As “they” say, “consider the source”. Is this someone who you know, love, trust? Is it someone who’s opinion you seek or believe in?? Ask yourself, does it really matter to you what someone else thinks about you. Or just don’t read it. Sorry it made you feel bad.
Kemiqueen, sorry this happened to you…unfortunately there will always be people who get satisfaction out of hurting others. I was bullied in school and believe me it was tough, but those awful experiences have made me a much more confident and strong willed person. Do not allow anyone to bring you down and don’t give them the satisfaction of reacting to their comments. I know we can’t always ignore someone if it really offends or hurts us, but when you don’t feed the mold you contain it! You can always report someone if they are being really innapropriate or abusive in the community. Yes people are entitled to their opinions and express how they feel, but when it’s a personal attack or abusive in anyway then it’s not an entitlement anymore. We’re all human and it’s normal to let what other’s say affect us, but it’s how you handle the situation that makes a difference. Don’t let someone who probably is not losing any sleep over what they said, ruin your self-esteem. Take care and know that you are special no matter what anyone says! :smileyhappy:
Kemi, ignore this person. EVERY post ever made by this person has been to chew out and tell posters that their issues are unimportant and they have too much time on their hands. See my response on Coupon Equality.
Kemi, I am reading your post & I then see all these beautiful people replying wonderful replies to you and that is because you are a wonderful, beautiful & helpful person. Ignore the “haters”. Jealousy always rears its ugly head!!!!!! Pay no mind to this. Some people only post nasty comments, I never see them post anything that adds value to the community. They only post to belittle others. I guess it makes them feel more superior behind their desks but in actuality any one that has some couth realizes how much it really makes them look. I bet these kinds of people have loads of friends & what a joy they would be to have to sit beside in the workplace.
Please ignore them, Be your happy, beautiful self & let their negative comments slide right off your back. They are not worth it. And knowing they are getting to you would only make them feel more self righteous. Flick them off like a piece of lint!!!!
What makes me wonder is why they even come to the forum??? If they accuse people of having too much time on their hands
1- It’s NONE of THEIR business how much time YOU spend on line
2- THEY must be spending too much of THEIR time reading the forums & taking the time to spit out venom!!!!!!!!!!
I started a new Thread but you have to go under “talking amongst yourselves” to see it. I don’t know how to get it on the main board and HSN has obviously “STOPPED” anyone from posting anything on the “Coupon Equality” thread. Please go to “talking amongst yourselves” to see my post.
? i am so sorry that you have been hurt. words matter. opinion is important, and we all want people to be empowered, but WORDS MATTER. they have weight. they can pierce us, mind and soul and it sometimes can spill over to the physical as we might be unable to process the attack.
personally, i can get really wounded and i retreat. i am not good at thinking someone is a “hater” and “it’s them, not me” so i understand that you are hurt. i would be wounded and hurt, too. i find it impossible to brush something off. i take a long time to rebuild. all i can say is, read our comments and breathe in the love and support. journal your feelings. have a good cry. make a deal with your higher power. breathe. then, pamper yourself with your perlier. read the supportive posts again. repeat. WE:heart:KEMI! : nikcatsad:
AND if i, in any way, have offened you i am deeply sorry and I ask your forgiveness
? My heart breaks for you. I too am a sensitive person and almosts 60 years old and people’s words still hurt. I retreat into myself and as many times as I say to myself it is them I don’t believe it. From all I have read or seen you write on here I think you are a very special young woman who has overcome much and should be so proud of yourself. Please try to ignore the mean people in this world, it is what I try to do. I wish I could hug you and tell you everything will be ok but I cant so please accept that we all care for you here and would never intentionally hurt you.
I tend to be sensitive as well, and it is difficult for me to “brush” anything off that I find hurtful.
Personally I find that focusing on other things for awhile to be very helpful. I enjoy crafting, playing with my dogs, etc. When I am feeling hurt in any way I often take refuge in those things that bring me joy.
The world is not always happy, kind, fair, or understanding. I think we all need our ways to cope and feel better when anything has made us feel hurt, or sad. If it makes you smile… now is the time to enjoy it.
Posted in Clearance, Special & Coupons
07.30.16 9:11 PM